Written by Lynda Chiotti of Chiotti Inc.
Yahoo Library: http://developer.yahoo.com/ypatterns/
Thorough discussion (mostly about software dev't): http://hillside.net/patterns/
http://ajaxpatterns.org/Main_Page
Collection of articles: http://www.deyalexander.com.au/resources//uxd/design-patterns.html
http://designinginterfaces.com/ = O'Reilly book
http://www.welie.com/patterns/index.html
The Interaction Design Patterns Page: http://www.visi.com/~snowfall/InteractionPatterns.html
old: http://www.pliant.org/personal/Tom_Erickson/InteractionPatterns.html
2003 book: http://www.designofsites.com/pb/index.html
Jan Borcher's book page (and the book itself - A Pattern Approach to Interaction Design): http://www.hcipatterns.org
Experiences -- A Pattern Language for User Interface Design: http://www.maplefish.com/todd/papers/experiences/Experiences.html
This page on the IA Wiki: http://iawiki.net/WebsitePatterns
Not patterns, but 2002 data on instances of elements: http://www.webdesignpractices.com/index.html
gov pdfs: http://www.usability.gov/pdfs/guidelines.html
Blog on UI patterns: http://www.widgetopia.net/
GUI: http://www.guidebookgallery.org/index